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My Dilemma as a banker by ireti posted on Oct 12 2016 5:55AM

Hello CV linker, I'm glad to see there's a forum on your site,  at least one that's not over saturated with judgemental people yet.
I finished my NYSC in 2012. Before this time,  I did not like the idea of a lady working in a bank as I thought it's too stressful and demanding. After searching for other jobs for almost a year and half without luck I couldn't be selective anymore.
I got a broadcast message in 2014 (as I often used to get) with several job opening notifications and I applied for some.  At the end I got a marketing job in a reputable bank where I'm still employed.
I realized how difficult it can be to meet targets and the things my colleagues were doing to meet their targets.  At first I thought it was demeaning how men would sleep with marketers in order to open accounts that are not in the marketers' name. eventually I couldn't beat them so I joined them.
I have gotten so deep into this and my salary and commission is what preovides for my siblings and my parents at the moment.
Now I'm to get married next and I'm not sure if I want to keep doing this job as I would have to cheat on my husband. Unfortunately, he just lost his job and this job feeds my family. What do I do?
Readers please advise me. My younger one's school fees and expenses depends on this job. So does my future.


Re: My Dilemma as a banker by fekimike posted on Oct 12 2016 7:21AM

All these bankers and their stories.  See why I can't marry a banker.


Re: My Dilemma as a banker by mensar posted on Oct 12 2016 7:30AM

I didn't know these things are real. 

Female bankers tho.

I'll advice
you resign and save your marriage.


Re: My Dilemma as a banker by amanda posted on Oct 12 2016 7:44AM

If I we're in your shoes,  I'll keep my job and be smart about it.


Re: My Dilemma as a banker by mensar posted on Oct 12 2016 8:23AM

@Amanda how smart can she be, it's
everyday for the thief oo


Re: My Dilemma as a banker by mensar posted on Oct 12 2016 8:23AM

@Amanda how smart can she be, it's
everyday for the thief oo